However credible it sounds, a lie is still a lie We all have qualities we believe our partners had, even if they truly do not possess such qualities. I imagine this is what happened to singer David Lutalo as captured in his popular song Mubbi...
Is my girlfriend cheating on me for money? It also looks like you did not get enough time to speak about the relationship and learn more about each other. This has caused insecurity in your relationship and more so, loss of trust. I also...
Intimacy in Ramadan: What are the limits? Before addressing the questions, Imam Ahmad Kyeyune, a popular scholar trained in Saudi Arabia, first, clarifies; what is forbidden in Ramadan, such as gossiping, gambling, fornication and...
PRIME Our love has triumphed over sickness, cultural differences Being a Muganda from Lubanyi, Buikwe District, David’s family questioned why he was so intent on marrying a Japadhola from Tororo in eastern Uganda
He does not care for my sexual needs I totally understand you when you say your sexual needs are not being met as expected. I would like to let you know that your feelings are legitimate
How to love your spouse through trials In marriage, change is inevitable, but with understanding, support and a willingness to adapt, couples can embrace the journey together
PRIME The Gumisiriza’s love story brewed out of Covid-19 Diana was equally restless when Allan was out of contact for seven months and using her social media expertise, she went on an intensive ‘Allan searching spree’ that yielded his new contact
She hates my mother, sisters I am sure you understand your mother and sister much better and so, your role here is to protect your spouse. It is possible that the relationship between the three ladies is not good due to...
Could sexting be a sign of a committed relationship? One of the major theories regarding relationships is called attachment theory. It suggests that the way you related to your caregiver as an infant (and vice versa) shapes how you come to view...
PRIME The Kakeetos were high school sweethearts For me, it was love at first sight. Even my parents Alex Kakeeto and Aidah Namulindwa were happy with my choice and gave me the go-ahead to marry Viola at the age of 29
Rupert Murdoch is engaged once again at 92 92-year-old media magnate Rupert Murdoch has announced that he plans to wed his girlfriend in June
After two heartbreaks, I am afraid to date again Make time for communication with your new partner and get to know him better
Let us have a sober chat about alcohol and addiction At dawn, with the hope that a fresh day brings, he seems determined to do something about his life as he greets you politely and offers a few coherent words. Meet him a few hours later after a...
PRIME How do you balance work and family time? We are also self-employed so we share a lot of responsibilities when it comes to parenting and dedicating time to work and the children
What if my girl has a male best friend? Stella Nyapendi Chombo serves as the acting commissioner - Legal Services and Board Affairs at Uganda Revenue Authority (URA). She opens up on women and leadership and the misconception...
It does not take a lot to make women happy You know, men tend to think women are very fussy, difficult-to-please human beings
Why does he keep lying to me? Label how you feel. Are you upset about the lying? Or frustrated? What part of this issue is the real problem for you? What needs are not being met for you. Is it the lying about his children...
Everyday ways to make your relationship flourish Whether it is sharing a traditional meal, attending cultural events together, or learning each other’s native language, embracing cultural gratitude fosters a deeper sense of belonging and...
PRIME ‘She was worth waiting for’ However, after being friends for a semester, Boris expressed his feelings to Emily and mentioned his plan to marry her. Maybe because she was caught off guard, she went mute for more than five...
My husband spends most of his salary on alcohol A man’s ego or feeling of self-worth can quickly be injured if he realises he is unable to provide for his family as expected
All relationships require effort, hard work Relationships are hard work, which is probably one of the oldest statements in history. It is, however, extremely true. For a successful relationship and for your love to flourish, you need to...
Here is why you may want to consider scheduling sex Emily Kato, a psychologist specialising in relationship dynamics, emphasises the importance of communication and mutual understanding. She believes scheduling sex can be a practical solution for...
PRIME Alibankohas: True meaning of ‘Till death do us part’ We did not take any photographs on the day since there was only one photographer who lived miles away and could not make it. After the pastor wedded us, we went home and had a meal and several...
PRIME I wrote a letter to God about my feelings for him, says Martha Martha Kebirungi Ayebare and Hannington Babyetsiza tied the knot in late 2023
My wife uses Lent as an excuse to avoid intimacy "It is possible that she is going through a challenging situation and needs your suppor”
To yesterday’s victors and the vanquished It is impossible to demonstrate love sincerely and truthfully in 24 hours
PRIME Onapitos celebrate 20 years of marital bliss Catherine Kiyai Okwi and Francis Ekomoloit Onapito say the ability to know when to cool tempers in order to avoid conflicts has helped them stay connected and helped their marriage work
Valentine's Day strike misery for UK lovers Britain's couples could struggle for Valentine's Day gifts and meals after Amazon staff went on strike over pay
PRIME Francis chose to first educate Sarah, children before marriage Francis Masaba and Sarah Mutuwa’s paths crossed in Bududa Town Council in Bududa District
PRIME How to survive Valentine’s Day as a single in Kampala Almost everyone in Kampala is single. You can be in a relationship in Kampala and still be single. You can be married and single
How can I get my husband to plan something for Valentine’s? It seems as though celebrating Valentine’s Day means a lot to you yet according to your husband, it is a waste of time and money. My suggestion is that you do not give up but try to organise...
How modern technology strengthens relationships Communication lies at the heart of any successful relationship and technology has revolutionised how couples connect
PRIME Couples share their plans for Valentine’s Day It is all about figuring out what feels right for your relationship, as these couples tell us
Has my husband joined a cult? I would like to draw your attention to the following question; when did you start seeing these changes? Extreme change of behaviour is often a red flag. It is not unthinkable to imagine that he...
PRIME Is it love or lust? How to tell the difference Understanding the difference between love and lust empowers individuals to build meaningful, lasting connections such as communication, shared values and emotional intimacy that play pivotal...
PRIME The way to her heart was through flowers Although he did not feel an immediate attachment to her, he loved the warmth of her smile and her welcoming personality
PRIME Love brewed at a conference Aaron Nkwasibwe and Deckirine Amutuhaire’s love story unfolds from a school conference to a sacred union
My parents are against our relationship Your parents’ suggestion seems to indicate that the girl you want to marry needs to at least complete school
Online dating: Understanding the pros and cons Over time, like all other forms of technology this has evolved. It has become less about looking for the one and more about looking for what can I get right now, can we go on a date tonight, do...
Learning each other’s vernacular will enrich your relationship Effective communication is a cornerstone of success for intercultural relationships and will help in avoiding potential pitfalls
PRIME ‘From the start, he made me feel safe’ Their story started at Bombo Barracks in Kampala where Nickson worked as a clerk in the office of the late Maj Enock Ahimbisibwe, the chief of personnel and administration at the barracks then
PRIME She never said yes in front of my parents Chapter closed: Oben Kithende and Sarah Asasira met in Mbarara but did not know this would turn out a beginning of a lifetime journey
Karmic relationships: Here is what you should know While statistics on karmic relationships may not be readily available due to the personal nature of the concept, experts say these relationships are bound to happen
She is HIV-positive but I don’t want to leave her I think the right thing to do is to end the relationship but I am also worried that a breakup might cause depression and other adverse effects on her health
PRIME Ruyaga’s 76 -year relationship is testimony that marriage is doable Joyce on the other hand is light skinned and fiery although a little sad that she could not communicate with me because she has lost her hearing due to age complications. Even though she is...
PRIME Love bombing: When love seems too good to be true While on the surface, love bombing may seem as a dream come true, it conceals a dangerous undersurface that can have long-lasting and detrimental effects
PRIME Navigating dating as a millennial We just need to make compromises and changes where a relationship may bloom
After slapping me, he is playing the victim card Slapping, kicking or any other form of inflicting physical pain is unacceptable as this can become a habit
PRIME How courtship prepared a couple for marriage It was during courtship that Wicklin Nagasha and Jackson Mucunguzi were able to discover a lot about each other. During the two-year period, the two learnt more about each other, discussed...
‘She played hard to get but I was determined’ Although Odeth Kamukama’s cousin tried to connect her to his friend Norman Ampulira, she was not receptive to any romantic advances for a while. However, Norman’s patience paid off when she...
PRIME My ex wants marriage, should I leave my boyfriend? It seems you have moved on after the disappointment you experienced with your boyfriend of three years. I hope you have taken time to really think and realise that the relationship was not working
Should I propose to my boyfriend of four years? Four years is a long time to be with someone and by now, I am sure you have noticed so much about your boyfriend
PRIME ‘I urged him to declare his feelings’ After high school, Edwin travelled to the Philippines for further studies and during this time, there was no communication between him and Hilda. However, when he returned, he asked to meet her...
PRIME Jimmy took 15 years to win over Jacqueline Jimmy and Jacqueline Nambiro are soul mates who made it official in 2023
PRIME Here is why the triangular theory of love is important Knowing how the components interact may help highlight areas that may need improvement
After our first meeting, has he lost interest in me? It feels good to fall in love and usually when it is just starting, it feels as though it will last forever
PRIME We found love on a dating app Irene Nsubuga had never believed she would meet her future husband on the Internet. However, one day, a pop up notification led her to a dating site and after two months of chatting to Jake...
PRIME Aheebwa’s journey as tour driver What started out as a ritual of gazing at tourist vans led to Rachel Aheebwa becoming a tourist driver
PRIME The making of Ghetto Kids’ Westminster Abbey special The Ghetto Kids recently captured attention with their mesmerising performance at the Commonwealth Day Service in Westminster Abbey, London
PRIME Apio pens an impassioned tale on all that life really is And it is with Zura Maids, ostensibly a housekeeping establishment, which this story turns on its hinges to open a door to betrayal, murder, torture and what one philosopher termed the...
PRIME New book lays out how an artist can hit a target This vignette best describes what music educator, record producer and guitarist Cole Sserunjogi went through and serves as the matrix from which his book “African Professional Artist Handbook”...
Gripping work of fiction revisits dark days in ‘72 Ordered to leave the country in 90 days, they are faced with the daunting prospect of leaving the only home they have ever known