Flirsh tipped-off their love over a game of pool

As for Lubega, also known by stage name of Chizzo, it was her personality that drew her towards him.

“We met over a game of pool and she was so determined to beat me that it just attracted me more and more to her,” Lubega, who describes himself as ‘one who is not afraid to say what is on his mind as long as he believes in it’, reveals.

Not one made for losing, Oketcho, known to many as ‘Flirsh’ is probably the most decorated basketball player in the country. The JKL Lady Dolphins and Gazelles (the national basketball team) captain says she made friends with him and like that, it was not hard for him to win her trust and later on, her heart.

“It was easy. He could never hide how much he loves me. I knew I was in safe hands,” she elatedly says.

He chips in: “I guess some things you just know.  Maybe it was because we love the same things; music, sports and a good life. She is also very family-oriented and very organised at home which is always a massive plus. After the pool encounter, she has made it a habit to try and beat me at table tennis, my favourite hobby,” he says, with a smile.

“At what point did you trust him with your heart?” I ask.

“Some memories I have to keep to myself, they are sweetest this way but I know for sure my heart is always safe with him,” she responds.

The dating stage was probably the most beautiful phase.

“Women never forget. I could fill the universe with what we did and on which day or what he wore to where but what matters most is everything I felt,” she says.

The two, who are yet to tie the knot say it is more about when than if. The couple has decided to take it slow and not to rush.

“Covid-19 obviously slowed our plans but as soon as things clear we shall be ready,” Lubega says, adding that he cannot imagine life without her.

“To be honest, she has given me a sense of meaning,” he says.

“We love hanging out together, with or without other friends. And because of the distance between us, we cherish every moment when we get a chance to be together,” he further explains.

Chizzo lives and works in United Kingdom while Oketcho is based in Uganda.

“We normally solve that (distance challenge) by making time to talk every single day,” he says.

She says moments spent together are special. “Happiness and love are key. Yes, you need to make your partner happy and love them but you can do this better when you love yourself and are happy. We were both happy when we are alone and being together has always complimented that,” she argues.

Trust, Love, Like

Lubega argues that every relationship is different. What he has learnt in the last 13 years is trust is one of the most important factors in every relationship.

“It is not easy I must admit but it is important for both parties to learn to trust each other. The crucial word is ‘learn’.

It might take you a few weeks, a year or years but in the end you have to learn to and then leave the rest to the Almighty God,” he observes.

Oketcho, on the other hand, advises lovers to majorly trust in God because He alone sets their path. 

“Respect one another especially in times of dispute. Trust each other. Like each other! You are together, you love each other, but do you like each other?” she asks as she offers some food-for-thought worth pondering over.

Her man is an old school type.

He dedicates James Ingram’s Always, Luther Vandross’ Always and Forever and his own Tabaaza to his partner and companion.