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What you should know before moving out of your family home
Engage in community events or join local groups to make connections. PHOTO/UNSPLASH.COM
What you need to know:
- Stepping out of the family nest can feel as soaring into the unknown, it can be both exciting as well as daunting.
- Before you take that leap, are you truly ready to embrace the freedom and responsibilities of your own space?
For many young people, moving out of the family home is a significant milestone, filled with excitement and a sense of newfound independence. However, it can also come with challenges and surprises.
By preparing yourself with the right knowledge and mindset, and learning from the experiences of others, you can navigate this transition smoothly and create a fulfilling life of independence.
Budgeting for living expenses
“Many young adults underestimate the cost of living when they move out. It is essential to create a detailed budget that includes all expenses, from rent to groceries,” says Jane Nanyonga, a financial advisor in Kampala.
When moving out, budgeting is crucial. Rent, utilities, groceries, and transportation can add up quickly. For example, renting a one-bedroom apartment in Kampala can cost anywhere from Shs300,000 to Shs1,000,000, depending on the location.
“Use budgeting apps or spreadsheets to track your expenses. Allocate a portion of your income for savings to prepare for unexpected costs like repairs or medical emergencies,” Nanyonga advises.
Choosing the right location
Selecting the right area to live in is essential. In Uganda, urban centres such as Kampala or Entebbe offer vibrant lifestyles but can be expensive.
“I chose to live in a suburb of Kampala to save on rent, but my daily commute often takes two hours. It is a trade-off I did not fully consider,” shares Sarah Nantege, a recent graduate.
“Consider the availability of public transport and proximity to work or school,” adds real estate agent Samuel Muwanga. “Sometimes, spending a little more on rent can save you time and transportation costs.”
Understanding rental agreements
Before signing a lease, familiarise yourself with the terms of the rental agreement. Many first-time renters overlook the importance of understanding clauses regarding security deposits, maintenance responsibilities, and the process for terminating the lease.
“Always read the lease carefully and do not hesitate to ask your landlord for clarification on any terms that seem unclear,” Muwanga emphasises.
Consider taking a trusted friend or family member with experience in rentals to review the agreement with you. “A second opinion can help you spot potential red flags,” he suggests.
Managing household responsibilities
Living on your own means taking on various responsibilities that were once shared with family members. From cleaning and cooking to laundry and grocery shopping, the chores can feel overwhelming.
“I never realised how much work it is to maintain a household until I moved out. I had to create a cleaning schedule and even teach myself how to cook,” says Michael Musinguzi, who moved out of his parents’ house last year.
Meal prep strategies can simplify cooking. “Preparing larger batches of food can save time and reduce waste,” he notes.
Establishing a support network
Moving out can sometimes feel isolating, especially if you are in a new area. Establishing a support network of friends, colleagues, or neighbors can ease this transition.
“Having a support system can ease the transition. Engage in community events or join local groups to make connections,” suggests Anita Nabukeera, a community psychologist.
“I joined a local sports club shortly after moving out. It helped me make friends and feel less lonely,” shares Grace Katusiime, who moved to Kireka, Kampala from Jinja.
Navigating local services
Acquainting yourself with local services such as grocery stores, markets, hospitals, and transportation options is essential. Knowing where to find essentials can significantly reduce stress.
“Use local apps for grocery delivery or transport services. They are increasingly popular and can save you time,” advises Nanyonga.
Creating a list of essential services in your area, including pharmacies, hospitals, and grocery stores, can be handy. “I had to explore my neighborhood extensively to find the best options,” recalls David Mulumba, who moved from a rural area to Kampala.
Understanding cultural adjustments
If you are moving into a different community, be prepared for cultural adjustments. Each neighborhood in Uganda has its unique customs and social dynamics.
“I moved to a more urban area and had to adapt to different social norms. It was a learning curve, but I learned to appreciate the diversity,” reflects Mulumba.
Understanding local traditions and etiquette can help you feel more at home. “I made an effort to learn a few phrases and customs, which helped me bond with my neighbours,” he adds.
Preparing for emergencies
Living independently means being prepared for emergencies. Ensure you have a basic first aid kit and know how to contact emergency services.
“It is wise to have a financial buffer for unexpected expenses, such as medical bills or repairs. Consider saving at least three months’ worth of living expenses,” advises Nanyonga.
“Knowing the location of the nearest hospital and how to reach it can provide peace of mind,” adds Nabukeera.
Adjusting to independence
Moving out of your family home is a big step toward independence. Embrace the freedom but also acknowledge the responsibilities that come with it.
“The first few months were tough. I felt overwhelmed with responsibilities, but eventually, I learned to appreciate my independence,” Nantege shares.
Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, and remember that it is okay to seek help when needed. “I often called my parents for advice, which made me feel less alone,” she adds.
Finding your personal space
Creating a personal space that reflects your style can significantly enhance your living experience. Take the time to decorate and organise your new home to make it feel comfortable.
“Personalising your space can improve your mental well-being. Surround yourself with items that make you happy,” suggests interior designer Doreen Kabibi.
Adding plants, artwork, and personal touches can create a cozy environment. “I made a photo wall of memories that motivates me every day,” shares Katusiime.
COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT
Getting involved in your new community can enhance your experience. Attend local events, markets, or cultural festivals to feel more connected. “I volunteered at a local NGO, which not only allowed me to give back but also helped me meet new friends,” shares Fatima Nambubi, who moved to Kampala from a smaller town.
Engaging with your community can also provide valuable networking opportunities and help you feel more settled. Developing life skills living alone presents an excellent opportunity to develop essential life skills. From budgeting to time management, these skills will benefit you in the long run.
“Life skills such as cooking, budgeting, and selfcare are crucial for independent living. Take courses or seek online resources to improve these skills,” says Nanyonga. Investing time in learning new skills can boost your confidence and independence. “I started watching cooking tutorials online, and now I love trying out new recipes,” shares Musinguzi.
